Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Road Trip 2010 (part 2)

Thursday, July 15

We concluded a great time in Venice, Florida with breakfast and goodbyes to Grandpa and Sharon. We got on the road again with Chattanooga on our mind (wait, that's Georgia huh?, well we'll be close enough... read on and see what I mean).

As we left Florida I got to thinking about my attitude toward this Orange State and I must say, I have reconsidered my position. I thought it would be too hot and it wasn't unbearable and in fact when I was on the beach there was always a nice little breeze.

Then there is the attitude toward the actual beach and the sand. Okay, so while I was on my bromantic date with Praveen (see Road Trip 2010 part 1, Sunday, July11) we actually walked up to this bridge that took us from outside-concert-pavilion-concrete area to the beach. I stopped and took in the scene and thought to myself, "self, this is the first time you will have seen the beach in some time, are you ready for this journey?" Praveen was unaware of my talk with myself and continued over the bridge, so I followed. I stopped before getting to the sand and told him the I wanted to take a picture of what I was looking at. I took several pictures and meshed them together to give you an idea of what I saw.


Not bad for a camera phone huh? So there I am viewing this and thought to myself, "self, its time to take the step into the sand." So, I did. One step off the bridge, then two then three and before I knew it I was almost to the water. I thought, "this is great, I have really overcome something big!" Praveen then took his flip flops off and continued walking...
Okay, so here is when I stopped talking to myself and started trying to prove that I really didn't have an issue with sand (I mean come on... it's sand!). I stepped out of my flip flops and began the progression toward the water. Sure enough, before I knew it I was standing in the water at Jacksonville Beach. I started looking around for seashells and realized that I was actually enjoying
myself. The water began to rise and that was my cue to begin the walk backwards. Praveen stayed put, but I inched my way back to my flip flops. When we got to them, he picked his up and walked further back, put them down and walked back to the water. I was freaking out! I didn't show my anxiety, because I didn't want my new friend to think I wasn't enjoying the talk we were engrossed in, but I wanted my flip flops back on... I resisted the temptation and put my pair with his. We did this two more times before the talk came to a close. The girls approached and so we put our flip flops on and welcomed our ladies. Julie looked at me and said, "if I didn't know any better I would say you are enjoying yourself on the beach." I just smiled. My attitude has definitely changed when it comes to vacationing in Florida because of these couple little moments... thanks Praveen and thanks Julie, for pushing me past my limits. :) Well, now that the Florida part of our trip was done it was now time to head north.

As our drive got going, Julie had a fantastic idea. She said, "Hey, why don't we put the iPod on all music shuffle and see how far we get." I loved this idea, because we have a ton of music and we rarely listen to any of it, so we began the music. I personally think that this "great" idea blossomed from a fear that my podcast (talk radio stuff) was going to be played the whole way, but I could be wrong. LOL!! So the first song comes on... any guesses? LOL... something I put on there for Ava... the Wiggles! We just looked at each other and laughed and then skipped on ahead.

I think road trips are all about the journey and not just about the location we're trying to get to, so Julie and I allowed ourselves spontaneity. So, from Florida to Georgia to Chattanooga, Tennessee! We stopped in Georgia for some peaches, because I wanted to taste them and boy were they amazing!

Food note: these peaches were juicy and sweet! We also got key-lime salt-water taffy and key-lime coconut chocolate treats (so, so very tasty!). We also ate dinner at Chick-fil-A, because we were in Georgia, I mean come on, where else would one eat when in the birth place of the greatest chicken fast food spot.

Julie and I arrive in such great spirits, because we really had fun talking and listening to music, laughing and bonding! We took our time making stops whenever we wanted to and got in a little later than we thought, but Grandma and Jim were still up anticipating our arrival (they love the night life!).

We unloading the Escape and had the grand-house tour and then sat down and enjoyed some really great conversation. It was my first time meeting the both of them, so I really enjoyed getting to know these very important people. Time escaped us, because we all were truly enjoying each other, but when we realized what time it was we all decided to get to bed.

Friday, July 16

After a great night of sleep, we woke up refreshed and much later than we expected. Breakfast was waiting for us and coffee was waiting for me! Mmm, mmm good! The conversations picked right up where we left them from the night before!

Food note: We had a great fruit medley, bagels and cinnamon toast! You have got to love the carb count!

We all hopped into the car and took a tour around this very interesting community. This 500+ housing community has a golf course in the heart of it, but that's not why it is so interesting. This neighborhood is interesting because it is both in Georgia and in Tennessee. The golf course has holes that are in Tennessee and some in Georgia. They have this tennis court smack-dab on the line; one half is decked out with Tennessee colleges and the other side with Georgia. I stood on the line and took this picture! It was a pretty cool moment... I just stood there for a moment and thought maybe you all could just stand here with me for a moment too.

Okay, moving right along!

We drove around and looked at beautiful look-out points and some really big houses in the area and then Jim asked Julie if she's ever been to Lookout Mountain and she said, no, but she always wanted to, so that is exactly where we drove to.

Because we wanted to do so much in this one day we all decided on eating an early lunch. At the base of this mountain, we drove around looking for somewhere to eat when Jim said that barbecue sounded good, so we looked for that. There was nothing around and we were getting closer to our spot. Jim said, "hey there is a KFC... how about that?" I'll be honest, when I am on vacation, I prefer eating at places that are not in my home town, but the pickings were slim and we were two lights from having to go up the mountain. Julie then saw this sign that read "Bar-B-Que Here" and pointed it out! We got excited and turned around, but at this very crucial moment we saw that it was at a place called Soup Bowl so we looked around one last time! The timing was amazing... Grandma, Jim, Julie and me all saw Sweeney's Pit Bar-B-Q at the same time... and there was much rejoicing!

Food note: The barbecue was really good, but the best part of this meal was the fried okra... wow, its been such a long time since I've had really good fried okra! So tasty! I enjoyed every single piece!

After lunch we headed up Lookout Mountain.
We walked around this old battleground and enjoyed learning about the history of this site. It was a very beautiful overlook too, so much green!

We really wanted to take a picture of us and this sign behind us, so we parked in a "no parking" spot and ran over, had an employee take the picture and then ran back to the car... LOL... so much fun!


We then met up with Uncle John, Aunt Connie and their son, Josh for a little boat ride! We (Jim, grandma and the rest of the crew) all got into the boat and began the trip to our dinner spot. The pontoon ride was enjoyable until the "warning" buzzer started buzzing! There was a feeling that things might not go so well and the stress kicked in, along with the fact that most of the people on the boat were hungry!
After a few restarts, the pontoon was good to go and we arrived to our spot, but that is when the waiting began ... (tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock) we waited... (tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock) and we waited some more. After waiting for about 45min (and a scare that we might get rained on when we head back to our vehicles via pontoon) the decision was made to take the trip back to the cars and to eat somewhere else. It never rained, but we did eventually get dinner at some Mexico spot!

Food note: the chips and salsa were amazing (hot!), followed by the Grande Meal (taco, tamale, tostada, burrito, enchilada, chile relleno, rice and beans)... that was a ton of food and I almost knocked the whole thing off! My eyes doubled up when they brought the two plate meal... it was a good laugh, until the ride home... hee hee hee!

After another enjoyable evening of conversation the day came to a close.

Saturday, July 17

Oh, the sleeping in was so nice! We slowly began the day which was thoroughly enjoyable, until we realized that Uncle John and his daughter Whitney had come to visit with us. Even worse yet, they had been waiting downstairs for a while... the rush began (play "rush" music in your head, from like a black & white silent film). We walked downstairs and enjoyed breakfast with everyone. It was a great time of fellowship and relationship building!

Sadly to say, it was time to say goodbye. We packed up our vehicle and headed home. Now, again, I believe that the vacation starts when we pull out of the driveway and is finished when we pull back in, so in my opinion and to Julie's greater need for spontaneity the vacation wasn't quite yet over. We drove and got that picture that I wrote about already (scroll up) after we made a quick stop at Krystals (yum yum yum).

Food note: Okay, here is the deal, I have always wanted to try Krystal burgers since I thoroughly enjoy White Castle and those two places are often compared. Honesty is the best policy... I like the White Castle burger better, but only because after eating it one can cause pain and agony to those in his/her vicinity. No, I'm just kidding, I really like their burgers. And I really like the spicy mustard that White Castle provides, but the Krystal burger was very good!

"On the road again - just can't wait to get on the road again. The life I love is listening to music with my friends - and I can't wait to get on the road again. On the road again - Goin' places that I've never been. Seein' things that I may never see again - and I can't wait to get on the road again." We had the listening to music part down... time for the place we may never see again... a winery that we saw a billboard for and just stopped at. It was a really nice stop! Totally enjoyed ourselves eating cheese and trying wine, although I had to limit myself, since I was the driver. Then we went to a place the Julie has never been, but always wanted to visit... Nashville, TN!
We parked and started enjoying the main downtown strip where country music blared from every bar and hokey tourist shops declared that "the King" is still alive! Julie was in country music heaven and soaked it all in! We ate at the infamous Jake's Bar-B-Que which rocked our world!

Food note: I've eaten at Jake's before and let me tell you... There is only one other place that is better than Jake's. The beef brisket and sausage oozed with fat and the juices that God provided to them! There were seven different sauces to use and the sides were Deeeeee-licious! I was in food heaven, oh and Julie really enjoyed it too!

We walked in and out of bars to listen to the different upcoming artists and purchased our "location" magnet. We had a fantastic time together! Our vacation and road trip now had one last stop... home!

We listened to music, we talked about how much fun we had and we both got to rest our eyes a bit. We talked about dreams and our future and we laughed at the little inside jokes that we will now be able to share. We skipped songs that neither one of us wanted to hear and enjoyed the ones that we really liked. I have taken several road trips, but none as enjoyable as this one.

Julie taught me so much about myself on this trip and I can truly say that I am ending this trip at a better place in my life than when I started it. I was stretched and tested and shown new and amazing things and I have a deeper appreciation for my wife. Julie, you are an amazing person and I love you so very much!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Road Trip 2010 (part 1)

“Really? Florida? I get to go on vacation and you say Florida? Does your sister want to go? Any friends want to spend a week with you in Florida? I don’t do well in the humidity and the beaches aren’t my favorite place… I mean, what’s up with all that sand? Does it really have to be so sticky to the body?” I was full of excuses and complaining before this vacation started and I was wrong for doing it. Julie wanted to see her good friend Megan and Praveen, her grandfather, Bud and Sharon and a lot of other family too, and all she got from her “best-friend”, “helpmate”, “supporter” and husband was argument after argument… quite tetchy! Probably has something to do with my sign, but more to do with “self”.

As launch date got closer, the squabbling lessened and the mood shifted and there was a little more excitement and anticipation; although I still had the childhood memories of disliking the beach still in my head.

Friday, July 9

I got off work and gave the Torbecks hugs and kisses and handshakes with a good squeeze and Neil and I did a bro-hug. I got into my vehicle and drove out of the neighborhood toward the local Speedway gas station (I’ve been influenced by a good friend and all the media to choose other stations than BP) and noticed that I was a little sad. I analyzed these feelings and discovered that I was truly going to miss work, because work seems more like family and I have come to love everyone I work around. But, because guys don’t cry too easily I took a deep breath and released and filled up the Ford Escape ’09 with gasoline.

On my way home I ran a couple errands and by the time I actually got home it was about 11:30p, so I did a couple things around the house and got a quick snack and then hopped into bed (12:30a).

Saturday, July 10

On the road by 4:10a... Heck ya! I got enough sleep to start the trip and Julie, well, Julie enjoyed getting to sleep. She had a ton to do around the house to prep for our return and finish her packing, so she decided that she would just stay awake until we left and I slept so that I could drive.

It was a great start... you've got to love driving for three hours and ending up in your fourth state! Indiana to Ohio, back to Indiana and then Kentucky! The sun came up and was, oh so beautiful!

The drive continued and from Kentucky to Tennessee and then through a tad bit of North Carolina! I got super excited to go through this state, and just enough to make me want to return (if you know me you'll know that I am a UNC fan!). Then we went through South Carolina and then Georgia (if you're counting that is 7 states in about 12 hours). Now, the trip should have taken so much faster, but we lost an hour and a half in traffic, but finally ended up in our 8th state and final stop for the day... Jacksonville, Florida!

Julie has had a faithful, wonderful, encouraging and fantastic friend since college that we decided to visit. So when we walked into this house there was much rejoicing! Hugs all around! Much clatter! It was an exciting atmosphere, but not because we were there (gotcha!), but rather because they had invited a few friends over for a game night. It was so neat to meet all these new people! There was Tom, Dick and Harry. Thelma and Louise and oh, what about Bob! (2 1991 movie references in 1 sentence... I'm good!) No, but seriously, there were quite a few people all hosted by the infamous, Darius... not Rucker, but Motiwalla and Megan and Praveen (the burger master).

Food note: Randomly I am going to break in the blog to bring you a food note. These are notes about food. :) The patties were formed and sauteed onions (sauteed in bacon grease and butter), bacon and cheese were placed inside the patties and then grilled on a George Forman! Can we say... WOW!!!!!

There was great conversation, fun conversation, interesting conversation, rated-M conversation and put-the-kids-to-bed conversation... what a fun night! Thanks to all who contributed... it was so nice to meet you all!

Sunday, July 11

Slept in! Zzzz... heck ya!

After a cup of coffee, and a couple eggs on toast (Thank you Megan)...

Food note: These eggs were over-easy and made to perfection. You know when you want runny eggs, but they are in the in between stage, these were not that... these were perfect!

... Praveen and I left our ladies back at home and went to the beach (I know, doesn't sound right... too much like a bromance right? Well, keep reading). This was a wonderful time filled with great conversation, laughs and free counseling! :) We drove up into a parking lot which had a sign "parking $5" and checked our pockets for cash (no credit or checks accepted). We had no cash, so a frenzy began in search of coinage! LOL! Between the coins in my vehicle and in Praveen's pockets we came up with $4.98! After looking at each other for the last two pennies I realized it was time for me to put on the charm. I turned around and with those eyes only a Dominican can give I said, "oh, we're two pennies off, can we bring it back to you?" This mammoth of a woman just stood there as if she was guarding the President of America when this other lady jumped from behind her and said, "how much are you short?" I said, "Two pennies" and then she said, "oh, just go ahead, I'll take care of it". "Oh, thank you", I said and drove off. After parking we walked around and finally found the restaurant/bar, Sneakers, that we parked right next to... LOL!

Now, here is why we left the girls, because we watched the final match of the World Cup at Sneakers and had to stand the whole time! It was amazing! The atmosphere was perfect for such an event! Flags of Spain were waiving in the air as people were chanting for their team. Every time something happened the crowds went crazy and when Spain finally scored, in the extra time, the place just erupted with an amount of elation that can only happen in an atmosphere like this. There were trains of people going throughout Sneakers, people throwing each other up for joy and Spanish music blaring from the corner of the room! I am telling you, if you have never experienced anything like this before, I highly suggest it! So much fun!

We then met up with the girls and walked the beach a little bit and then ate dinner (no food note because the food wasn't as good as the lady hyped it up to be). We walked the Pier and enjoyed the beauty of God's creation... just for us for that moment. :)

Monday, July 12

We woke up and said our goodbyes and headed toward Venice, FL. We decided to stop in St. Augustine for a few hours and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

There was so much to do and see; so much history! We saw the oldest town in Florida and all of the US, the fort that so many people fought in and around, the old Spanish city and Julie even took a picture with a real Spaniard... shhhhh... she thinks it was a pirate. We enjoyed each other and the atmosphere and I bought some cigars and smoked one as we walked around. It was a wonderful spontaneous stop in our road trip.

Food note: We shared a Key Lime ice cream waffle cone and ate at this wonderful pizza place. We shared this chicken stuffed thing and a slice of lasagna pizza... such a great stop!

We took several pictures before it started raining! We hustled up to our vehicle and continued our road trip.

We drove to Venice, FL where we were welcomed by two of the sweetest people anyone will ever meet! We were taken out to eat at a little hole-in-the-wall fish restaurant where I ate some wonderful shrimp!

Food note: These shrimp weren't covered by oil, but rather by coconut and batter. They were dipped into a wonderful orange sauce! So tasty! I also had some lobster bisque which was amazing!

We then were taken to the Venice Beach to see the sun set... another amazing spectacle.

Tuesday, July 13

Another wonderful day of relaxation... we slept in, were fed a wonderful breakfast, swam in the pool, played Rummikub, ate a fantastic dinner and swam more and then watched the All Star baseball game. It was a wonderful day!

Wednesday, July 14

This was beach day! We woke up, had another great breakfast and were scooted off to the beach. We saw two different beaches and we got a lot of sun (Julie baked pretty bad... ouchy)! The beach isn't as bad as I remember, I think I will owe that to the great breeze and the not-so humid days. :)

We got back, had another amazing dinner and got out to see the sun set again!

What a wonderful way to end our time in Venice, FL! Thank you God!

Food note: Sharon cooked four meals for us and they were all wonderful! First it was eggs, bacon, biscuits and cantaloupe. Then it was an amazing pork tenderloin with wonderful sides! Another fantastic breakfast of eggs, waffles, sausage and bacon followed by a fantastic dinner of fish with a peach/mango sauce and a wonderful salad and baked potato! Amazing food! Before coming to Florida I thought I didn't enjoy sea food, but I'm leaving knowing that there is seafood that I truly enjoy! Thank you Sharon, the food was amazingly wonderful!